This article will reveal the verdict of those with Lilith in Libra, the sign of the scales and ruler of the 7th house. Libra, therefore, is connected to relationships, intimacy, and communication, which are aspects that Black Moon Lilith is naturally concerned with. These are the areas in which She needs to heal most of her wounds.
Because Lilith represents unresolved trauma and disharmony, of which the latter is Libra’s most prominent trigger, in the sign of the scales, Lilith must keep a strong focus on maintaining harmony and balance. For this reason, Lilith in Libra is one of the more challenging aspects a person can have in their natal chart. By nature, they have a lot in common and yet many conflicts to resolve that express themselves in a person’s subconscious insecurity and pain in matters of the heart.
Lilith’s empowered Character
When Lilith’s lesson is integrated, those with the shadow side of the Moon in Libra will be gifted with tremendous charm, good looks, and a radiance that can inspire and even seduce anyone. If used properly, these people can tune their power of persuasion in a direction that can support and encourage others to enjoy the perfection, expansion, and uniqueness of themselves and the world around them.
The Libra archetype sees beauty in everything and desires to express itself in graceful and artistic ways. For Lilith, this can be an opportunity to become more gentle, elegant, and refined in her naturally wild and raw creativity. In Libra, people get to integrate their source of empowerment by tuning in to a more balanced expression of their deepest desires. Both raw and primal, but also mature and beautiful to their standards.
They can achieve any desired outcome and, with good intentions, bring lots of inspiration to others by showing how success and true love can be created from integrity, genuine expression, and unconditional acceptance.
To enhance inclusivity and keep harmony between people and life, those with Lilith in Libra can utilize their immensely fair, just, and kind approach by considering any situation from as many perspectives possible in the context.
They are interested and talented in many areas and directions in life but may hesitate to commit to one thing because that requires letting go of other options.
Lilith learns to be less impulsive and see things from multiple angles, yet She can also teach these people to trust their instincts and sometimes just go for what feels best out of many possibilities.
Because of this, people with their Black Moon in Libra become great negotiators that know how to guide others and themselves in the right direction for their creative potential to manifest fully.
As a result, they are often very trustworthy individuals to their friends, and everyone enjoys talking with them.
Sexuality and relationship
Her position in Libra can turn Lilith into a somewhat critical lover.
Lilith is a passionate romantic but can quickly express Herself in rage when She feels treated unfairly or become jealous when Her affection is not acknowledged.
The overcompensation or repression that Lilith causes in the sign of Libra can turn this archetype’s traits of needing reassurance and validation of its value to their loved one into a tendency to be fickle with its affections.
These people want to feel close to someone, but this can also be their greatest fear. As a result, they may unconsciously sabotage their relationships or project insecurities onto others when they feel unsafe or struggle to trust their other half.
Being treated with respect and equal affection as they give is essential because any form of imbalance triggers Libra’s aversion to disharmony.
People with Lilith in Libra are likely to settle down later in life because making a final decision to commit to someone can take time. They have a need to learn and consider each potential red flag first and can only trust themselves to be with someone in total commitment if their judgment of the relationship’s dynamic provides a green light based on their previous experiences. It can be helpful for them to not project their previous pains in relationships onto their new partner if they tend to show similar signs of disharmony but instead approach their love-life as a blank page upon which they get to uncover their own shadow when their loved one reflects it.
Lilith in Libra tends to enhance the mirroring effect of a person’s dark subconscious side in their partners, which is why these people learn about their deepest pains in their intimacy with others.
In their sexual energy, people with Lilith in Libra possess a strong, seductive power. Their other sex may find them very attractive, which is why Lilith finds strength in being desired. It strengthens Her confidence and gives these people a boost to love themselves deeper. This, in turn, will promote the healing process of any unresolved trauma and insecurity.
These people may have a leading interest in the attraction of external appearances. They have their own sense of beauty standards, and anything they find attractive in a person’s unique presence can get them in the mood for physical relations.
Lesson in life
Showing the aspects of freedom that were repressed into to unconscious, Lilith in the natal chart tries to set a person’s creative potential free by provoking it with her raw, wile, independent, and rebellious nature. She, therefore, influences the birth chart in different ways, depending on what a person needs to be pushed in the right direction to reclaim their self-empowerment.
When She is in Libra, those under Her influence may be fascinated by relationships. Yet this might be experienced as an unsuccessful area in their life. Their romances start well but can come to an end in no time. In many cases, these people can also experience several instances of falling in love with someone unavailable for whatever reason. This can trigger insecurities that root in a person’s self-perspective and how they lack confidence in feeling loveable.
When Lilith is in Libra, people must heal the wounds that come from the heart-shaped hole in their souls. Hungry for love and unable to feel satisfied by it, they may be on a constant search for love and have to overcome more obstacles than the average person.
The root cause of this insecurity can be found in their childhood experiences. These people may have been raised in a family with parents who lived together or were divorced on bad terms. They have witnessed many arguments, were often surrounded by disharmony, and grew up in an environment with little to no peace. In adulthood, this may result in deflecting and avoidant behavior towards drama and conflict. They can either feel triggered by their trauma and react with rage or want to get out of the situation as quickly as possible.
Another effect of such childhood circumstances is that trusting someone is not easy for them. As described in the section about relationships, they tend to see their shadow side mirrored back by their loved ones, which can confront them with deep-seated pains that they don’t feel ready yet to face.
Being in a constant struggle with their self-perception can cause them to define themselves as the function of their relationship. They focus a lot on what the other wants and needs from them, risking losing touch with their personal and deepest desires.
The Lilith in Libra placement suggests deep-seated insecurities that tie back to a person’s self-worth.
They care a lot about what others think and are driven by the need to be desired. As a result, they can develop very empathic skills but are also profoundly influenced by their environment.
It is essential that people with their Black Moon in the sign of the scales to weigh out the observations they have made on what external factors inspire, nurture, and heal them and which ones do the opposite.
They must choose their friends carefully, especially their significant other, who can be a beneficial influence in their life if chosen from a place of self-love and not desperation to be in love.
The opinion of their loved ones matters a lot to these people, which means that anyone who is ill-intended can have detrimental effects on their individual development and sense of safety within.
The lessons that Lilith pushes these people towards are often found in the search for satisfaction in places that are not good for them in the long run. Whether it is through people, partners, or any other source of pleasure, such as food and sex, the wound that it exposes is the subconscious belief that they are unlovable. The craving to be accepted and appreciated for who there are in their authentic self can cause them to attract abusive people who provide them with fake love.
To heal this and no longer be attracted to wrong crowds or resort to unhealthy coping mechanisms when they feel lonely, people with Lilith in Libra need to learn to give the love they want to themselves first.
It is hard to keep harmony in the long run, even though its natural occurrence is what has drawn these people together with their partners in the first place.
For these people to experience their potential in beautiful ways, they will benefit from evaluating how they use their magnetism and to what degree.
Being too uncompromising and perfectionistic or being submissive and pleasing in relationships can indicate the extremes in behavior through which Lilith tries to indicate an issue that needs to be resolved.
The main message She can bring is to enjoy one-to-one relationships with serenity and look for inner beauty and harmony instead of prioritizing external appearance. This allows these people to attract those drawn to their authenticity, which has much more potential to unfold in a long-term loving relationship and a sense of self-confidence to be loved for their actual and unfiltered self.